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- There is a big difference between challenging a man and telling him what to do. My husband has a way of bending me to his will, even when it is not the thing I believe I want at the time. I think for a man to really dominate me he must be able to prove his worthiness; he must be able to prove he can take what he wants. Telling me to do it or "hit the road" will only make me laugh and leave. Nothing will make me want to do what someone wants less than telling me that they will withdraw their love for me if I do not do what they say. For of course asking me to leave because I am not submissive enough would be throwing away a lot more than a sub. We are husband and wife. We are great friends and lovers. Submission for us would not be worth throwing away everything we have in 13 year marriage.
- For me it is the fact that my husband CAN overpower me that excites me about this whole Taken In Hand relationship that we are building. My husband does not let me tell him what to do either, but he is in no way afraid of the strength that I feel within myself. He encourages me to be who I really am. If the person I really am needs to push and test, my husband is more than up to the challenge of over-powering me in my more resistant moments to get what he wants. Some people enjoy a little resistance too!
- by Tevemer on 2005 Jul 7 - 22:00 | reply to this comment
- A Real Man can actually dominate her
- Sarah wrote:
- It is often the most resistant women who are the most deeply submissive.
- Yes, absolutely. And it cannot be said enough, because this is something that many "dominant" men seem to be utterly clueless about.